How are y’all doing? I know it’s been a hot minute since I last posted. I hope everyone enjoyed their Thanksgiving Break & Black Friday, we had a small family dinner and then Jose and I went to Target cause he wanted to buy the new Call of Duty game. Such a boy lol.
Anyways two weeks ago I finally moved out of my family home, and honestly it was one of the hardest things I had to do. I think the reason it was so hard was the fact that it was my first time moving out, and I feel kind of guilty for leaving my mom and sister by themselves in that house. Especially since all of our family lives in Chicago, my parents separated about 4 years ago and that is another reason.
The main reason I think it was so hard was that it was my first time moving out, also because I am my mom’s first born and the first one to move out. The last week I was at home I remember coming home from work on Monday, and my mom and I just sat down and cried for hours. Literally a big crying fast, and that made me not want to move out. My mom though told me you have to move out, “tienes que hacer tu vida”. Which is true, I do have make my own life and figure out the person I want to be or the person I aspire to be.
So far living with my boyfriend has been AMAZING! We have our little puppy that we adopted, her name is Frida after Frida Kahlo because she is just a badass woman! We are actually renting his parents old house and so far everything is great, there is still some work the house needs done, but were doing that little by little.
Some tips I can probably give for your first time moving out are:
- If you feel like crying, cry it all out. It will definitely help you feel better.
- Try to spend as much time with your family those last couple of weeks, because when you move out you’ll definitely miss them.
- Be happy, because you’re starting a new chapter in your life!
- Look forward to decorating your apartment or house the way that you want to.
- And last but not least look forward to hosting parties at your new place!!!
I will be posting some pics of our place later on when we get everything a bit more organized and decorated.
So I turned 26 on Monday, I know crazy lol. I know also that a lot of people don’t like telling there age, but I don’t really care. So turning 26 has not been much different, than turning 25. I do have to say that 25 was a really good year for me, I just hope 26 is just as good. I am very blessed with the family, friends, and my boyfriend, they made this year amazing for me. I am just super happy. It has been such a long time since I have been this happy, but I am definitely super happy and super blessed!
Besos, Kim ❤️